Have you ever imagined how in a movie at the end everything falls at the right place? How the couple lives happily ever after, obviously ups and downs will always be a part of life. Have you ever come across to any couple who are just perfect, the relationship is just splendid and flawless? No right, because this is not possible, but what’s possible is to have a smooth relationship. A relation which you can cherish for the lifetime and this is possible. Perfect Couple does not realize but they put so much effort to keep the spark alive and make the partner happy. In this article by Top10khoj, you will be unfolding some of the ways to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Let’s check out top 10 things which help to build intimacy in a relationship.
10. Surprise Your Partner
This is very common but the impact is very much strong. We all know that people like surprises but usually in a relationship partner take this option very lightly. Most of you would not ask your partner for any gift and vice versa. But when you get one as a surprise 😀 you know that feeling!! It just feels amazing. And not just gifts, a small act which is unexpected to your partner or not usual, makes the other one happy. A bed tea and a love note and many more! Surprising your partner is very much needed, it increases the possibility of having a smooth relationship.
9. Share Your Fantasies
All of us have some fantasies and of different genres. Many couples do not share their fantasies with each other because of the fear of misunderstanding or losing them. But the research says the more comfortable and happy relations are the one where there are no secrets. You must tell your partner what you like and what you fantasize. This will make your relationship more comfortable as there would not be anything to hide from or to be ashamed of. You must accept the way you are and your partner have all the rights to know it.
8. Express Your Love
When you are in a long time relationship as a Girlfriend-boyfriend or as Husband-Wife, this happens that at the starting of that relationship you express your love to the partner quite often but as the relation gets older, you stop expressing your love or maybe not that often you express. That is when the relation starts getting faded. Most of the time your assumption is that your partner already knows how much you love or care of him/her. But it’s not only about they know it, it’s also about you making them realize that “yes! you are the one.” Many relations get bitter with time and this is the main seed of that bitterness. So guys stop expecting and start expressing.
7. Take Her/Him On A Romantic Fairytale Date
Ok so now don’t be too tomboyish girls and just accept that yes you like it and you want it!!!! This one is specifically for guys to follow that doesn’t matter how cool your Girl is or how much boyish she is, she will always like!! alwaysssss want you to take her on a fairytale date. And why not!!! She deserves it. She deserves every bit of it. It’s always needed to make your partner feel special, and taking her/him on such date would be the best thing you can do.
The candlelight, the background soft music, the wine, the dinner, the prince and princess, the moon, the stars and lots of love, everything literally everything needs to be just perfect. Just try that one and we guarantee that this would be the best time you will spend with your partner.
6. Share Your Deepest Secret And Have The Faith
We share our deepest darkest secrets with the one we trust the most. Someone whom you can blindly trust, you can count on them every up and down. And who can be a better person other than your partner in that? The relationship which had this friendship and trust are the best relations. When you share your such secrets with someone you give them a lot of power on you, and at the same time, you show that you have faith in them. This always increases the possibility of a strong relationship.
It’s said that “if he accepts your flaws then he deserves your perfection”. Just have that comfortability in your relationship wherein you can share anything without fear of judgment and the other partner should also accept it without being judgmental, and always remember it requires two people to build a successful relationship.
5. Help Your Partner In Housework
This one sounds a little off the league but has a very strong impact. When you and your partner live the same life, stays in the same house, works for almost the same hour then why only your partner has to do the housework alone? Does that give power to the Man/Woman if he/she works only outside the house and not in the house? A house should be run by both man and woman of the house.
This may not be a general thing but it happens in maximum houses where one partner will be running the house (being a professional or being a household), but the house will be their responsibility, which is completely wrong. The house is built of two persons, ‘Man and Woman’, it’s both of them’s responsibility to run that house. Always try to help your partner in work. Let it be a small help but it gives the happiness and satisfaction to the other partner that she/he is not alone. They have your hand for them
4. Cuddle Your Partner Often
To keep the spark alive, this is one of the strongest point which we have, Guys You should cuddle more often. Cuddling brings you closer to your partner and you both get more comfortable with each other. Many surveys have happened around the world and they all have come upon the same result that it is a must. It is scientifically proved that “Cuddling triggers the same neurological reaction as taking a painkiller”. You gotta make them feel your presence in their lives. Make them feel the love you have for them and this always brings the intimacy in your relationship. Do this quite often and see the magic in your relationship.
Appreciate your partner, not only for the big achievements but also for the small-small efforts he/she makes for you and the family. It is always needed; your appreciation may not cause you dollars but will give the immense happiness to your partner. When someone put some effort for you regardless of any expectation, a small appreciation gesture from you will make her/his day, weeks or even month. Please do appreciate your partner today and why only today, from today to every day you are going to spend with her/him.
2. Take Some Time For Him/Her And Interact
In a busy life, most of us do not have the time to sit and talk, need not be on a serious discussion but just TALK. Speak your heart out, share your routine, share your work, share your thoughts, share your problems, share the way your boss deal with you today, share anything but just TALK. This is very important.
Today world is more of about social media, do you want to get the day’s status of your partner by visiting their social profiles? No right! So just discuss, discuss everything. It will surely bring out the solution or if not! Then at least satisfaction!!! Many relations just break because the couple did not discuss the problem at the very starting and then their ego, self-respect and all the things took place before they could even talk about it. So just take some time and interact with your partner.
1. Show Your Wild Side
So, guys, you have to express, you cannot always be soft and gentle with her/him. This is the most important point to build intimacy in a relationship. You got to show your moves, you have to take initiatives, you cannot just wait for the other one to initiate, be a rider :P. The physical attraction is the key to be in a healthy and happier relationship. You should make efforts to have that. You and your partner should be in a comfort to share such relation without any hesitation, and that will build with time, but not impossible. Keep on trying new tricks to impress and work toward it.
So, guys, these are the top 10 things which help to build intimacy in a relationship. If you have some more in your mind, share your comments or mail us. Your feedback is always appreciated.